Yippeee! My legs are feeling like jelly!
This song, (below) is one, that I listened to. You really NEED the whole album tho, it ROCKS! I was lucky enough to hear the EXPLICIT VERSION of the song below! LOVE IT! Oh I LOVE it so much more for the explicit, since that's the way I talk.. well, when, I'm mad I do anyways. Right hubby? He nodded yes, as he recalls our once yearly, annual blowout very well. Like I'd let him forget it!! Not evaar!!
It's a pretty awesome album too! Love it! I have her previous album as well, it's wonderful too. Check her out over on YouTube!
Since her song got me thinking about it..
General things I know about guys, women, life, and relationships in general.
1. Men don't change.
2. Men are slower mentally & physically, than women to mature.
3. What you see, is what you get. So choose the finest specimen you can find. Seriously, ladies be very very picky! Listen to Indiana Jones; "CHOOSE WISELY"
(I've got a theory going, if you're choosier, there will be less garbage out there.)
4. Don't expect miracles. Or beds of roses. Those are just movie props!
5. Men are not women. Some of course, are great communicators, but most aren't. Please clearly & calmly explain your thoughts, wants, desires & feelings. "Be up front in the very beginning." IE: SWF seeks cool MUSIC loving guy who MUST love Kids & Dogs.
6. You do not need a man to complete you. That's just your tick tick, tock clock talking to you.
7. Don't listen to advice from girlfriends, *unless they have a SUPER, AWESOME, wonderful husband & relationship with him. Cue to fade in @ Photo of my SupER AweSOME HUBBY who for some odd reason after almost 20 years together, still effing adores me & thinks I'm hott! (He's only slighly insane, but I'm not going to wake him up! SHHH!)
8. When dating or wanting to have a relationship with a man, or woman for that matter, it's only about YOU TWO, not what everyone else *sees* or *thinks* about your relationship. It's YOU & HIM or YOU & HER against the world. Think of it like you two are a super duo superhero team, not you VS someone to manipulate to your wishes.
9. Relationships end. Sometimes it's inevitable. I think the younger you are when you begin dating, the more likely you will end relationships & move on because they just don't go the same way as you any longer. (that guy I dated who liked Baseball. I hope he's happy & adores his baseball loving wife, that just isn't me. I'm sorry.)
10. Don't date someone *JUST* cause they think you're pretty. Chances are it won't work.
11. Don't date someone who doesn't agree with your religion or beliefs.
12. Don't let people try to change your religion or beliefs, so they can date you.
13. Looks are not everything.
14. Find someone who is a little bit like you are. Sure, if you're a stubborn old coot' (like me) and they are too (hubby) sometimes you two will butt heads. But that's OK cause Beavis & Butthead are pretty funny at times. Fights do happen, there is no happily ever after, that is just a Disney Flick. Remember that. Repeat as needed.
15. If it's meant to be, nothing, no one can break you up, even if they try.
Thank you, that is all. Please leave your questions in the comments bin. I will file them & answer the ones, I can. I am not a matchmaker, nor am I a wizard. But Love is Magic!
--Heather :)
2 comments:
Beautifully said Heather! But what about when you're dating someone and they don't have the same views as you? I, for example, am a very young vegan and there aren't exactly that many vegan guys out there (I have yet to met ONE) Do I try to change them to my vegan lifestyle or do you think it's best to wait until I'm older? I always start a relationship and tell myself that I'm fine with who they are, but then down the road I find myself trying to convert them to veganism. I've been successful converting quite a few Ex's but they usually only convert because I've asked them to and not because they see the reasons behind it all. At that point I become bored with the relationship and end it. This situation has happened to me many frustrating times and I'm just not sure how to handle it. Have any advice? Thank you so much for your generous words of wisdom! I'm taking them all to heart as I speak :)
Thank you kindly! Yeah that is a toughie. I think folks have to come into it wanting to change, and the reasons have to be for themselves, their reasons. It can't be forced on folks & having someone change so young like that is hard, cause they don't feel badly, as of yet from the meat eating, till they are older & get closer to the heart issues, or other health issues. I do think going to a farm sanctuary might help things in that department & the one movie folks always suggest seeing is Earthlings. This explains it far better than I ever could on going into it eyes first & wanting to change for the animals & to boycott the suffering. I know there are vegan men out there, finding them is hard, of course, since our society tells men they NEED the protein, which they do not & most men eat far too much of it, thinking that more of something good is better, than too little. I almost wonder.. if you told them right off the bat, you're vegan & it means so much to you not to harm animals to be healthy, that you'd try to convert them & maybe you shouldn't date them... maybe that would make someone think. Of course, they would have to be openminded & this might not work. I know Worcester is a great veg community, so maybe you'd meet someone through one of the places there. I do get the 'OMG, vegan kids' thing a lot, but it's getting more & more notice lately, I'm sure things will change & there will be more in the future. Best advice is just be patient & be yourself. Happiness will find you & you have plenty of time, so don't worry at all!! (hope that helps a little) XOXO
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